Amy Lyn
Amy Lyn
I have made a few posts on here, and figured I ought to take a few moments to introduce myself and what it is that I do.
I am a new addition to the site, and will now be co-authoring on a few of the updates, adding my two cents in where its needed..ect. I love spanking, and nothing is more fun I think than being put over someones knee and getting my bum warmed with a nice bare hand. I am fairly new to all this, I have been running around my local kink community for about a year now and really enjoyed the spanking aspect of it all. However spanking is not my only interest. I am one of the BayCityBlues girls, and as such I have my own independent blog for all my naughty phone adventures. Please come find your way there sometime as well 
Christmas Shopping Fun
So my lovely Top and I where out shopping for the holidays. Typical couple activity, we where busy popping from one store to another, picking up odds and ends for family and friends. When we made it to the bathroom section of a store… now normally the bathroom section is harmless, its the hair care isle that worries my bum. However this time he happened to spot a long wooden bath brush. Now my mind didn’t jump to spanking right away, in fact I was like oh that looks nice I can finally reach all the hard to reach areas on my back, he picked it up and made some comment to the effect of yup and it has a long handle like a wooden spoon has. My eyes got all big and I relised he was holding a giant hair brush. I quickly snatched the bath brush out of his hands and hung it safely (and far away from my bum) on the shelf. Oh but it is not that easy, some how the bath brush made its way into the cart and sure enough on its way home with us.
So now a few days later the bath brush long sense forgotten by me, as it is in a bag on the chair with all the other things we bought. I decide to play the brat card, I poke and nudge at him all day. I teased and whined and pouted, I think there might have even been a little tantrum thrown at his office. All day long he is just smiling and letting it go. Then we got home.
We got home and I poked one more time, and just like that I was over the couch and he had the bath brush in hand. I gulped, I whined I pleaded. It has no effect on him. He landed one swat with the bath brush over my jeans. I jumped and turned to him and nuzzled in close, talking fast begging to get out of any more swats. Back over the couch I went and another swat with the bath brush, I still wiggled and whined. This made him even more cranky, so down my jeans go. One more swat, then another, I cried out and put my hands in the way.. he moved them and had me start counting now. I had earned 5 more swats. So I counted and it went something like; one, owiee no I’m sorry, two, Daddy please no more, three I’m all done I’ll be good, four stomping feet and wiggling, five, ok ok no more daddy and I snuggle in close.
So the bath brush is right up there with hair brushes for things that I dislike used on my bum. It is very effective at getting me to get the point of our little conversations. I must admit though, I have a pretty high tolerance for spankings but hair brushes and bath brushes bring out the whiner in me!
So You Want a Spanking?
So You Want a Spanking?
For me the hardest part is wanting a spanking and not being able to get one right when I want it. Spankings can be very sensual and very sexual so if I am in the mood a good hard spanking may be all that is on my mind. So how does one go from wanting a spanking to actually receiving a spanking? I have a few methods, they don’t always work and sometimes they backfire but more often than not I get just what I am looking for!
Ask Nicely
Yes, you can always just ask, I prefer something along the lines of “mmm Daddy can I have spankings and naughty stuff” Obviously change it to your preferred titles. This sometimes does not work, if he is not in the mood, or is busy or we have some obligation soon.
Sad Faces
I make a sad face and snuggle up close and maybe sigh a little, this gives the person I am interested in receiving a spanking from an opportunity to ask what is wrong and if they know me well enough, a chance to suggest a spanking to lighten my mood and cheer me up. Now if the person does not know your desire to be spanked, or that spanking improves your mood this will not work and may end badly.
Bratting
Ah the time tested and true method. I become a little brat, I poke and prod and tease and am horrible, normally in a cute pay attention to me way. Now you have to be careful with this one, because it can lead to getting spanked because you crossed a line and actually upset the person you want a spanking from. Then all bets are off if it is a fun, or not so fun spanking.
Tantrums
I so am not above throwing a fit to get my way, however this is not for the light hearted. When I throw a tantrum in the hopes of getting a spanking I know that it is not a spanking on my terms and I am at the whim of the person giving me a spanking.
So that’s how I do it, as I said most of the time it works, sometimes a little better than barged for so be warned you are putting your bum on the line when you actively go searching for a spanking!
What About the Undies?
What About the Undies?
I love panties, I love undies, I don’t care what you call them, I love them (with the exception of thongs but I will go into that a bit later.)
As a bottom/submissive I really feel panties are a huge part of this aspect of my identity. Most females I know take great pride in the panties, having the bra and pantie match, or the pair that shapes things most perfectly. However as someone who regularly enjoys having my pants taken down and my undies exposed in the home or for others to see (at an event or such) my panties are an even bigger deal to me.
For me, there are three aspects Cute, Comfort, and accessibility.
Cute~ my panties have to be cute If they are cute and sassy all the better. My favorite sassy pair has to be a pair that says “Kiss This” because odds are if someone is seeing my bum it’s because they, or an object of theirs is about to make a contact with it, and most likely because I have been a Brat (oops! Hah).
Comfort~ my bum is a no ride up zone. I avoid thongs for that very reason! I do not like having things up m butt crack, I do not find it cute and well they have to be cute, see above. So what makes comfortable? Well it has to fit well. Not too big, not too small panties have to fit. Well fit panties also frame the ass nicely and make for a great visual for the one doing the spankings. They have to be soft, or a material that one can wear for the desired length of time. Nothing is worse than having a ruffle pair of panties and then having to sit in them for 6 hours… it makes your bum hurt and not in the fun spanking way! The panties should also not pinch or chafe the wrong areas. After all if you’re like me, your bum (or the bum of your partners has enough opportunities to be sore, why add to it by uncomfortable panties?!
Accessibility~ they have to come down easily! Nothing is more fun than the feeling of having your panties being pulled down and that moment before the spanking resumes.
This all ties into to the perfect pair of panties, the perfect pair of panties leads to awesome spankings, and awesome spankings are well awesome! And well who doesn’t want awesome spankings?
