Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

I would have to say I’m more open then most.  My close friends and people in the community know my kinks.   I’m not afraid to talk about them if asked.  I don’t broadcast what I am into but I’m not afraid to talk about it.  The main reason I’,m more open is my lifestyle is my business and my hobby so I’m often surrounded by people it’s safe to talk about these things with.

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Honestly I look for some one I can trust.  I have to be able to open up to this person and share with them some of the darkest fantasy’s I have.    Also this person needs to have a light hearted sense of humor and the need to be adventurous.   I’m very lucky to have a wonderful person who fills all of these needs.

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

I would not say my interest have changed, they have evolved.  I’m starting to developer a hight interest in role playing and bondage since my early spanking kink started.

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Communication communication!!!

Partners need to keep open lines at all times.  There are allot of things than can happen at play parties or events or even in your own bedroom that will need to be addressed by both partners.

Sorry for the delay in these but once again the post timer did not but them out on time.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica By Rachel Kramer Bussel (Editor)
Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories By Rachel Kramer Bussel (Editor)
The True Confessions of a London Spank Daddy by Peter Jones