I would have to say the gorean lifestyle.  I some what understand it. I just don’t see how it can implement or lived in todays  society.  Maybe you my dear readers can help me out.

It honestly has given me more work and business opertunitys.  It has given me a great group of close friends.  It helped me find the current love of my life and partner.  It has given me events and outlets to really be who I want to be.

Oh god yes!!!

1. People who judge others peoples kinks.

2. People who are to self involved to see that they might out others around them by there actions.

3. People who get to close to other peoples scenes space and don’t ask permission.

4 . Predators/Vultures/Hawks/ (Enough said)

5. People who have been on fet life maybe 3 days and show up to a munch thinking people should bow to them or try and make them feel special, and get prissy when they stay in there shell and no one talks to them.

6. The younger/New generation that thinks it’s should be fine to play at munches and do kinky stuff in a public setting because there out and proud and don’t realize what it could do to there local community.

7. People who ignore the older wiser generation that really could teach the TNG and younger folks lessons on what kink used to be before there were all these parties.  Bank when hanky’s and subtle markers had to be uses.

8. Overly bratty subs that will annoy the shit out of you but get pisy if you try and discipline/Play with them.

9. Dom’s who think there gods gift to kink

10. People with no respect for anything

Ok I could keep going but I will stop here.

That we are devious freaks that live in dark dwellings and eat children.  No I’m serious I really get tired of hearing the judgement from some corners.  To be honest I know allot of kinky people that are high powered business people and professionals .  They drive SUV’s and live in the burbs like every one else.

I think people need to learn the kink people

Live next door to you

There kids go to school with your kids.

We work with you  and we help make life function just as much as you do.

That is going to be the fact that I have to be supper careful not to let it out too much.  I’m a rather out person to be honest.  I also work in the adult industry and work for a couple of different kink websites.  But there are some clients I have that would not use my services if they knew what kind of work I did on the side.   I know that makes me a little hypocritical but kink/porn/adult work is not paying my mortgage just yet.

So the most difficult aspect for me is knowing who and when to reveal my personal interests VS business interests.