A Hard Day's Night

I’d never really been spanked until this year. It’s not that I wasn’t “into” it before, I just never had someone who knew how to do it well offer to do it, and I somewhat naively hadn’t thought to ask for it for some reason. I had been spanked here and there during sex, usually between thrusts when the guy was behind me, but it wasn’t really that hard and I had never asked someone to bend me over his knee to do it, had never felt the immense rush of excitement, satisfaction and arousal that I felt that first night this past February when this sexy man I had been seeing took turns slapping each cheek, rubbing to warm them in between some of the slaps, and finished by asking me how many more I wanted, informing me that I had to count aloud as he did it or he would have to start all over again. I was awash with a kinky afterglow; he brought me right to my limit – I had almost used my safeword, but I didn’t. I was captivated – I loved that my ass was sore for the next few days, and found beauty in the bruises that evolved through shades of red, purple, blue and yellow. Read the rest of this entry »

[singlepic id=25 w=320 h=240 float=left]We had been bragging to one another about supped up Volkswagen Jettas for over a month via the Volkswagen owners fan club website. After banter back and fourth for over a month, I finally threw down the challenge. She and I in a quarter mile challenge at the next VW meet up. It just so happens the next event was at the local race track. The forums became alive with chatter; it was the battle of the sexes, one beautiful tricked out Jetta versus another.

She had been joking via e-mail with me about how much fun it was going to be to spank me in this race. I sent a reply back, “Let’s make it interesting. Winner gets to take the looser home and give them a real spanking.”  I waited with anticipation watching my inbox.  Her response was, “Only if you let me buy you dinner first.” That was it, I had to win, and after I did, I was going to show this little girl what a real spanking felt like.

The meet up was far larger than normal, people who had not come out in months were here to watch the spectacle.  We wasted no time in getting down to business. We were guided to our lanes and told we could take off as soon as the president of the club threw his straw hat in the air.    There we were, two great specimens of German precision and ingenuity.  The hat went up and we were gone.

When all was said and done I took her to a very nice dinner.

You can use your imagination for the rest.

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That’s right: win a paddle! The lovely Rachel Kramer Bussel will be giving away a paddle and other such gifts to those who buy her new anthology,  Bottoms Up: Spanking Good Stories.

You can check out all the details for this give away at the  Bottoms Up blog.  If this book is anything like Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, then we are all in for a real treat.  So, come on and join in and grab your copy of Bottoms Up.  The contest will only be open for today!!!!!!

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There is a little bit of cash sitting around in the Spanking Resource budget.   I’m looking for some new spanking sites to review.  So, if there are any sites out there you would like to see me review on this site, just leave a comment and let me know.

I will total all responses up on Friday and make the announcement.

If you are site owner, or just have a clips for sale site up, and would like to have some of your content reviewed here on spankingresource.com, you too, can leave a comment or e-mail me at

admin @ spankingresource. com

Hope to hear from you all soon!

I love the fact that so many spanking niche website owners have started to embrace social media.  There are a few using Twitter,  some on MySpace, and some are even adopting Facebook.  They’re using these mediums to listen to their customers and get their brands  out in the open.

This has even lead to one my most recent addictions:

http://www.spankingtube.com/

That’s right! A tube site chock full of free spanking content.  There is everything from amateur videos to clips from larger production companies.  Go check it out and let them know what you think.

Now back on topic.

I have had an account on Fetlife for almost a year now.   I think it’s a great site for helping kinksters of all kinds to socially network with one another.

Then I found spankolife.com.

I’m not sure how I feel about this site yet.  The design does not tickle my fancy and neither does the Paypal donate button.  I’m sure there is something in the TOS about them doing transactions for any type of adult site.

What I want to know is have any of you tried out spankolife.com? If so what do you think?

Well, everyone, I recently did an interview for exploringintimacy. They posted it a week ago.  You should go over and check out the blog.  There are a lot of sexy toys, interviews, and information for any sort of sexy voyage you might be thinking of making.

There are also some great interviews done by other spanking enthusiasts, such as:

Sarah, from spankingsarah.com
Julie, blogger at Red Hot Chili Bottom
Thomas, of Thomas’s Spanking Exploits
And the yummy Sera Miles

And Of course there is my interview here

Go check them out and leave lots of comments!

[singlepic id=14 w=320 h=240 float=left]Once again the crew at punishedbrats.com has found spanking gold with the adorable Lily Anna.  There are a few excellent video’s of this little minx getting some rather solid spankings.  I’m working on setting up a time to get Lily Anna on the phone for a audio interview.   But until then you can enjoy her at punishedbrats.com.  If you want to see a much naughtier side of Lily Anna you can check her out at lilyannaxxx.com.  She also has her own dedicate solo site here.   If you want to drop her a line and keep up on this adorable bottom check out her myspace.

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I was sitting at work, slacking off on Twitter, like every other day, except today I found a nice little gem from a woman named Jessica over at thefrisky.com.  The article describes her journey through the world of spanking and experimenting with spanking while dealing with her conflicting feelings.

I really enjoyed reading this piece and I hope she writes more like it.  She also wrote another Article on The Frisky called “Why Do Strong Women Like To Be Dominated?” It, too, is a must read for both men and women alike.   I really love the feminist perspective when it comes to things like dominance and submission in the bedroom.

Let me know what you think

Why Do Strong Women Like To Be Dominated?

First Time For Everything: Getting Spanked

I raced home from my meeting knowing  that my wife would not be home for at least another hour and that Alex would still be in bed.  That would leave me more than enough time to warm the bottom of my new spanking partner and built-in babysitter.

I parked the car in the alley behind the house.  I quickly walked up the path through the garden to the back door.   The cool night air felt refreshing against my flushing face.  I entered in the back door and stood in the doorway to the living room. Her back was turned to me, her headphones on, and I could see all of her attention was drawn into World of Warcraft.

I walked up behind her and placed a hand on her shoulder, she jumped and took her head phones off.

“You should be paying more attention to my child then this game, Melissa. I thought we talked about this.”

She looked down to the keyboard. She could not look at me. Her body trembled.

” What did I say would happen if I came home to it again?”

She continued to look down

“You said you would spank me, Sir.”

I paused for a moment.

“And that is exactly what I plan to do.”

I lifted her from the chair and placed her over my computer desk.

I spanked her soundly until her characters  hippogriff landed.  I let her up, she thanked me and went back to playing.  I went and logged into the machine next to her until the Mrs. came home.

I have recently started receiving e-mail from people asking me about the Spanking Resoruce podcast.  There was one pilot episode posted back in December of ‘08.  I was going to create more of them, but life got busy again and there were just was to many technical problems.  I did a great interview with Morgan Mae that I have to redo since it sounds like we are both sitting in a coffee can. So, after little feedback and much frustration, I threw that project aside. I now have readers asking for it, so to keep all of you happy, I will give it another shot.

So if you are a spanking site webmaster, model, established blogger, video creator, site owner, etc, please let me know if you would like to be interviewed. I’m also thinking I might do more if I have a co-host or someone that will get on me about not getting them done.  If you think you fit this bill, let me know.

Readers and people who enjoy the casts, please e-mail me creation@spankingresoruce.com or leave a comment.  Let me know who you would like me to interview and send me some questions you would like me to ask.

Joe