Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
I identify as a Dom.
I have been active in the kink lifestyle since my late teens. (Well that is as early as I’m going to admit. ). I think my first real kink and my primary kink today is spanking. I have been a “spanko” for years. I do enjoy other activities such as play piercing and bondage. I have stayed away from rope work because I’m scared to death of dropping some on. I used to do ties and bindings but it never really resonated with me.
I’m very proud of the fact that that I served under some one who was very close to me for 2 years. I have never done something to some one I have not felt first hand. This does not make me a switch. I personally have hard time taking Doms/tops/Masters/Mistresses in my generation seriously. I find too many of them talk a good game but when it comes down to brass tax they have only been practicing there art for a couple of years and expect every sub in the building to bow to them.
I’m Dominant in all aspects of my life. To me dominance is an art form, I think you can be born with a dominant spark. I also believe you have to continue feeding that spark in all aspects of your life. Most dominant people I know have a couple of things in common. There often very alpha personalities, there is often allot of confidence with equal amounts of humility. There also constantly learning, weather it’s there kink skill or aspects of there vanilla life.